I am an atheist. I don't believe in God.
- An atheist is defined in two senses: Someone who says he believes there is no God and someone who simply lacks belief in God. An atheist cannot say he " knows " there is no God because he would have to know all things in order to know if there is or isn't a God. If he says he believes there is no God ask him why he believes that way and begin there. If he says he lacks belief in God, then ask what he " does " believe in and start there. I always get around to the question of, "How did we get here?" Since creation and evolution are the only options, I have something further to work with.
- Evolution has a lot of problems with it. It seems to me that it takes a lot of faith to believe that you developed out of ocean slime, simply by chance. At least as a Christian I have the evidence of the resurrection of Christ from eye witnesses as recorded by them in the gospels. Evolution or not, Jesus rose from the dead, said He was God, and forgave sins. I'll put my faith in Him instead of evolution.
- An agnostic says he doesn't know if there is or isn't a God. (Usually after saying this I challenge them to explain the prophecies of the Old Testament fulfilled in the New. I state how the Bible is unique that way and that only God can make prophecies that are 100% accurate. Then I ask him to explain how that could be done if there is no God.)
- If there is no God as you say, then in the end I lose nothing. But if there is a God like I say, in the end you lose everything.
- Why don't you believe in God? Is their any reason for you to intelligently reject His existence? Or, do you simply desire not to believe in Him?
- The Bible doesn't attempt to prove that God exists. It simply speaks as though He does. Maybe I can't prove to you there is a God, but I can introduce Him to you through His Son Jesus Christ and you can judge for yourself if the Words of Christ in the Bible convince you of His existence.
(Note: We exist. How did we get here? An atheist's only option would be to say evolution. If you study evolution, by reading Christian books that reveal and document its many serious problems, then you will be able to weaken the atheist's belief in it. The logic is simple: If evolution and creation are the only options, to remove one is to support the other. Therefore, learn as much as you can about evolution. Your witness will be greatly strengthened.
However, evolution does not explain the origin of life, only its development. Discussions on origins of life are interesting in themselves.)
I am trying to be a Christian.
- You become a Christian by simply putting your trust in Jesus and His sacrifice for you on the cross. There is no trying involved. If you trust Jesus, if you ask Him to forgive you of your sins and be your Savior, then you are a Christian. It is living like a Christian " after " you've become one that is difficult.
- If you believe that in order to become a Christian you must be good, then you misunderstand or don't have a good understanding of salvation. A Christian is a Christian by the gift of God (Rom. 6:23
), not the work of man (Eph. 2:8-9
). There is nothing you can do to earn salvation or keep salvation. It is simply something God freely gives you. If you want it, confess your sins, repent, turn to God, and trust Jesus as your only Savior. Then, and only then, will you become a Christian.